What it is to be a Man...
Ask any guy you knew and listen to what he is going to tell you..If you think he is a man, he can provide you an answer so distinct that you will never doubt him.
A man knows exactly who he is, what kind of person he is, he know his character, behaviour, attitude, his strenght, and weaknesses. He is single minded, not confused, not erratic, no dilemma, no phobias, fearless, straight, focused, balance and working hard to refine himself.
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Does the above definition pertains too serious of a man? It should be!A man can only be called a man when he has no doubt about himself, that he can present himself just the way it should be. He got no twisted tongue, not pickle minded, he knows where he stand, he never compromise, it is always yes or no. He is as reliable as he can be, will do things not because he needed attention, but because its needed. He has faith in himself and to his creator, and does not pretend to be otherwise.
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Real man, never boast, never wanted too much attention, not a womanizer!!He never uses his charm to attract women so he can manipulate, exploit, take advantage of their weaknesses. This man is women's best friend and will stand beside those women that needed support.
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Now, we will have at least a clear understanding of what it is to be a Man. Nowadays, many are trying to be man when they are not. Trying to fool themselves, pretending to be good, smart, intellectual and capable though they are not. Many men are also working hard to present themselves to be a typical dream boy even if they are not.How do we know, if we are actually dealing with a man, and a real man?With the way things are going in our present time...I think, there's a great gender issues that needs to be resolve and for sure, it can't be solve during our lifetime or in another thousand years perhaps.
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Men at this rate were at the edge, and with too much imbalances, dis-harmony, dis-enchantment, gender confusion, and worst than that - the mass media influence that dictates how a man should behave and adapt to the changing times. It is too terrible to witness this gender problems in our time, and it will get worst in the years to come.
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Man is basically in the brink of extinction if the whole generation of men will not act and fight for the gender problems he is facing. I do hope, that someday - men will come to realize who he is, and what he is, and what it is to be a real man.
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I personally believe that men need a very strong wake up calls..Men have forgotten the essential nature of himself. He loses his understanding of how to be a man. He is blinded by the illusion of the senses, and is under the influence of lower passion. He has lost his control over his well being. He became a slave of his animalistic nature.
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But still , there are many "few" out there whom we can call MAN. They maybe working silently, unheard, and unknown. But in critical times, they always show themselves to be a helper, supporter and saviour of those less fortunate...They were the true gentlemen, the wise, the one who understand, a friend of everyone, listener, and a true lover. They carry in themselves the mark of a true human being, godly, and spirit filled. They speak with their heart, truthful, diligent, mindful and clear. They are the easiest person to communicate with...and loves permanently and unconditionally.
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These are the few information of what is it to be a MAN!
A man knows exactly who he is, what kind of person he is, he know his character, behaviour, attitude, his strenght, and weaknesses. He is single minded, not confused, not erratic, no dilemma, no phobias, fearless, straight, focused, balance and working hard to refine himself.
..
Does the above definition pertains too serious of a man? It should be!A man can only be called a man when he has no doubt about himself, that he can present himself just the way it should be. He got no twisted tongue, not pickle minded, he knows where he stand, he never compromise, it is always yes or no. He is as reliable as he can be, will do things not because he needed attention, but because its needed. He has faith in himself and to his creator, and does not pretend to be otherwise.
..
Real man, never boast, never wanted too much attention, not a womanizer!!He never uses his charm to attract women so he can manipulate, exploit, take advantage of their weaknesses. This man is women's best friend and will stand beside those women that needed support.
..
Now, we will have at least a clear understanding of what it is to be a Man. Nowadays, many are trying to be man when they are not. Trying to fool themselves, pretending to be good, smart, intellectual and capable though they are not. Many men are also working hard to present themselves to be a typical dream boy even if they are not.How do we know, if we are actually dealing with a man, and a real man?With the way things are going in our present time...I think, there's a great gender issues that needs to be resolve and for sure, it can't be solve during our lifetime or in another thousand years perhaps.
..
Men at this rate were at the edge, and with too much imbalances, dis-harmony, dis-enchantment, gender confusion, and worst than that - the mass media influence that dictates how a man should behave and adapt to the changing times. It is too terrible to witness this gender problems in our time, and it will get worst in the years to come.
..
Man is basically in the brink of extinction if the whole generation of men will not act and fight for the gender problems he is facing. I do hope, that someday - men will come to realize who he is, and what he is, and what it is to be a real man.
..
I personally believe that men need a very strong wake up calls..Men have forgotten the essential nature of himself. He loses his understanding of how to be a man. He is blinded by the illusion of the senses, and is under the influence of lower passion. He has lost his control over his well being. He became a slave of his animalistic nature.
..
But still , there are many "few" out there whom we can call MAN. They maybe working silently, unheard, and unknown. But in critical times, they always show themselves to be a helper, supporter and saviour of those less fortunate...They were the true gentlemen, the wise, the one who understand, a friend of everyone, listener, and a true lover. They carry in themselves the mark of a true human being, godly, and spirit filled. They speak with their heart, truthful, diligent, mindful and clear. They are the easiest person to communicate with...and loves permanently and unconditionally.
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These are the few information of what is it to be a MAN!
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